Wow!!...it's been a while that logged into blogspot to update my stuffs, felt reluctant and gave myself all sorts of excuses to defer writing in here....well here i am "willingly" to update a lil on my thoughts (actually got pretty pissed with the nasty wireless connection in Starbucks, cant even have a proper game of League of Legends)
Hmmmmm....once again why that title?? Since is the festive seasons this month, met up a lot of people got to "eavesdrop" on people's conversations or even from my partner....Of all the things we ought to worry, there are tonnes of them out there worried about their love life some became weary of it...
Then again, arguments and disagreements are inevitable, COMPROMISE is the word that we all know yet we dont really put into practice....in times people rush into relationship with hope of finding someone compatible (whose not??) Trial and Error is the phrase for it.....but as little as they know working out a relationship is not as easy as saying "I LOVE YOU'S" or "I MISS YOU'S"....there are more to that than meets the eye... Well, i cant practically be stating what are the DO's and DONT's in a relationship, as it differs from one another and most of all it takes all the FUN away...Yet, mark my words be flexible, be versatile, be smart and most of all dont make irrational comparisons with your so-called previous princes or princesses (why make comparisons, why not just CLONE them like designer babies instead??)
Not only that, i do hear a lot of "I dont think i am ready" or "i dont think he/she is ready for a relationship" after you guys have been through like freaking 2-3 years??!! You think is as easy as trading in your used car?? I've always practice a principle, give someone or yourself a probation period (I am not saying you have to treat it as work, or even telling your date about it), to avoid unnecessary embarassments....as i do know somem of them got hooked up like less than a week, and start to BROADCAST all around.
However, the entire thing got called off right after 1 week?? Save yourself from embarassment and give it a try.... From there you'll slightly have some ideas when you are ready and when you are not...to all teenagers out there...I know some people would address your relationship as puppy loves, but i do agree some would eventually got married in the future as their puppy love blossomed all the way...
"You wanna play too?!! It'll be fun!"
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